At 56, Brooke Shields is just getting started
Brooke Shields can't stomach "Squid Game." The previews alone signaled to the 56-year-old that watching the violent survival drama "would not be healthy for me." Even bingeing the bawdy "Sex Education" can be a bit much for her at times. Instead, she longs for cozy viewing escapes, like the new Christmas rom-com she stars in and executive-produced for the Netflix crowd who, like herself, simply wants to live, laugh, love this season.
"If I could, I would be doing rom-coms and sitcoms 24/7," she told The Washington Post during a recent video call from her home in New York. "To me, that is my happy place." Wearing oversized glasses and a creamy Nike zip-up sweatshirt, Shields's brunette hair falls around her shoulders in casual waves while layers of necklaces and rings as eclectic as her career complete the look — a chunky gold smiley face signet on her hand, a delicate key dangling from her neck.
During the height of the pandemic in 2020, Shields journeyed to Scotland to film "A Castle for Christmas," the aforementioned Netflix film, directed by Mary Lambert, that will premiere Nov. 26. In it, Shields plays a celebrated author who travels to Europe to purchase a castle and ends up meeting a romantic lead in the form of a crotchety Scotsman, played by "The Princess Bride" star Cary Elwes. It's a pure comfort watch, and the rare film centered on a woman over 50.
"There's this whole era that I'm walking into, and I'm seeing it out there being less represented. You go from Gen whatever to Depends," Shields said of the lack of roles for women who are not ready to be relegated to supporting grandmother parts. "Why is menopause just associated with being crusty and old and dried up? I am better now than I was ever before. I'm more focused and more confident. I feel sexier. I understand my body more. I'm fitter."
But despite Shields's proclivity for feel-good fare and her generally perky demeanor, the actress is "not all Pollyanna," stressed Lambert, who is best known for directing the 1989 horror flick "Pet Sematary." "She's got a dark, crazy sense of humor. She can talk trash like the best of them."
Shields's unconventional life has been breathlessly documented. Born and raised in New York City, Shields is the product of Teri, a socialite and model, and Francis, a businessman, who separated after just a few months of marriage when Brooke was still a baby. At the tender age of 11 months, or "zero" as Shields jokes, she began modeling before landing her first major film at 11 years old, playing a child sex worker and appearing nude on screen in Louis Malle's "Pretty Baby." By 14, she was in the primal island romance "The Blue Lagoon." At 15, she fronted a Calvin Klein ad campaign, positing in one famous spot, "You wanna know what comes between me and my Calvins? Nothing." And at 16, she starred in the initially X-rated "Endless Love."
Simultaneously hyper-infantilized and -sexualized, a young Shields was the object of the world's fascination. The Washington Post alternately branded her "sixteen going on 9" and "The Littlest Sex Goddess" (the latter when she was just 13). But while America couldn't stop staring at her, Shields began avoiding her own reflection, dodging mirrors in fear of becoming too vain. "It felt very arbitrary," she said of the attention on her looks. "I didn't want to focus on something that I, at that time, didn't have any control over."
Of course, no child star becomes a child star on their own. Shields's mother was an early momager and the driving force behind propelling her into adult situations and controversial roles. And yet, Shields has staunchly defended Teri and credits her with protecting the young star from the worst of the industry.
"I would be a figment of people's imagination at this point if she didn't guard me and keep me away from every potential Me Too moment, every piranha that was out there waiting to get their teeth into this young blood," she said.
Shields remains resolutely proud of her early work, but it's difficult to imagine a similar trajectory for a minor in Hollywood now. "Brooke has told me some stories about being a child on set back in the day, and people would go to jail now for some of the things they did to her," said Lambert, who also recalled seeing Shields and Drew Barrymore at Hollywood parties their mothers would bring them to in the early '80s. "I'm not talking about violent rape or something like that. I'm just talking about the way she was treated as a human being. And she just rose above it."
Shields sees her teen self as "the first reality star," a commercial brand that, while aspirational, was largely rooted in relatability and access. The media reported on her first period. Her trips to the orthodontist. Her virginity. Watching the recent documentaries about Britney Spears, Shields recognized some of the same obsessive, prying treatment in early interviews with the pop star.
To control the narrative, Shields (and her mom) decided to routinely offer up information and answer everyone's questions directly and in ample detail. "There's always been a sense of entitlement about me. And part of it is because I put a lot out there, so that I'm doing it first," she said. "Then you can say what you want and there's speculation, but I've told my truth. That's also why I write books." Those tomes include 1978's "The Brooke Book," released when she was just 12; her 2005 book about her struggles with postpartum depression; and her 2014 memoir about her complicated relationship with her mother, who was a lifelong alcoholic and died of a dementia-related illness in 2012. (Shields's father died in 2003 following a battle with prostate cancer.)
Rather than become a recluse after her early overexposure, she's stubbornly stayed in the spotlight for more than five decades, updating the world on each chapter of her story as it unfolds. We've heard about her marriage proposals from Michael Jackson and her "dates" with George Michael. Her time at Princeton University, where she immersed herself in romance languages and lost her virginity to Dean Cain. That her two-year marriage to Andre Agassi crumbled in part due to his crystal meth addiction. And we watched her perform on Broadway in musicals including "Cabaret" and "Chicago," earn Golden Globe nominations for her starring role in "Suddenly Susan" and return to the small screen in "Lipstick Jungle," "Hannah Montana," "The Middle," "Jane the Virgin" and more.
"I really just thought she would be a self-involved narcissist," her friend, the comedian and actress Ali Wentworth, said of her preconceived notions of Shields before they bonded over being mothers with nearby houses in Southampton, N.Y. "I always joke with her and say, 'Based on your life, you should either be in rehab or dead.' Instead, she's this incredibly thriving woman with amazing kids. She's the opposite of what you would expect."
For much of her life, Shields assumed people — especially other women — would hate her on sight. She learned to not take up all the space in the room with her inherent glow and charm and to knock herself down with self-deprecating jabs before anyone else could.
Becoming a mom to Rowan, 18, and Grier, 15, made it clear she didn't want her daughters to fall into a similar pattern. "Humility can be dangerous," she said. "I think empathy and respect are better words." Her 20-year marriage to their father, comedy writer and producer Chris Henchy, has also been key in keeping her balanced. When she spirals down a rabbit hole of stress or worry, he often tells her "FOFO," a dad-ism for "find out before you freak out," and pulls her back out.
These days, she regularly uploads goofy TikToks and Instagram Reels.
That desire to amuse is evident even in the most unfunny of circumstances, like when she fell off a balance board at the gym in February and broke her femur, leading to an extended hospital stay, multiple surgeries, a staph infection and months of physical therapy as she relearned how to walk.
"When it happened, all she did was try to entertain the emergency guys," Wentworth said, marveling at Shields's strength that she believes is borne from growing up with an alcoholic parent. "That's so Brooke. Her instinct is to make them feel OK, instead of just screaming in excruciating pain, which is what she was in."
As Shields was recovering, she also launched Beginning Is Now, an online community that encourages women to live their fullest lives at every age. Just don't expect her to be the new Gwyneth Paltrow. "Once you have wellness, well-being, well-anything on a brand or platform, immediately people are like, 'Oh, like Goop,'" Shields said, referencing to Paltrow's upscale wellness empire. "That's a compliment, in all honesty. I think what she did was tremendous. But we're a different demographic, and my real focus is on being accessible and relatable."