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    Saturday, May 04, 2024

    Kaitlyn Bristowe has become Bachelor Nation's unlikely lifestyle guru

    Kaitlyn Bristowe (Photo By Sthanlee B. Mirador/Sipa USA/AP Images)

    On a Thursday night in November, the Palace Theatre in downtown Los Angeles feels more like a bachelorette party than a live music venue. It's packed almost exclusively with millennial women, many of whom pose for photos with a giant inflatable bottle of rosé. Others sing along to early 'aughts pop hits pumped out of a Macbook by the warm-up act, former "The Bachelorette" contestant Blake Horstmann, who's wearing a Hawaiian shirt and a big grin.

    Finally, he introduces the main act, fellow "Bachelor" franchise star Kaitlyn Bristowe, by plugging two of her brands. "Raise your hand if you have one of her scrunchies," Horstmann says. The crowd becomes a sea of wrists sporting fabric-covered hair ties, which Bristowe sells for $15 each under her brand, Dew. "She also has a wine label, which all of you can enjoy tonight." This isn't exactly true, since Spade & Sparrows is sold only online, but the audience screams with excitement, nonetheless.

    Bristowe, wearing a neon-pink bodysuit under a denim jacket and jeans, struts onto the stage and yells, "Hello vinos!" She pronounces "vinos" as if it rhymes with "rhinos," stretching out each vowel like an announcer at a boxing match. Bieber has his Beliebers, Swift has her Swifties and Bristowe, who is not known as a singer but does aspire to release a country-pop album, has her vinos: the fiercely loyal fans of her podcast, "Off the Vine." It garners about 50,000 downloads per episode, according to Bristowe's publicist.

    "I'm so out of breath right now. This tour is killing us," says Bristowe, who is 34 and lives in Nashville with her boyfriend, Jason Tartick (also of "The Bachelorette," though a different season) and her Instagram-famous golden retriever, Ramen. Bristowe is halfway through her nine-city "KB Fall Crawl" tour, a series of alcohol-fueled live podcast tapings that feature raunchy jokes and embarrassing "confessionals" from "Bachelor" franchise alumni and other guests. "The front row is always so lit, I love it. One girl puked the other night," Bristowe gushes.

    Plenty of Bachelor Nation stars score deals to promote brands and many create podcasts, including Nick Viall, whom Bristowe rejected on television but remains close with - he is the guest at tonight's live L.A. show. Bristowe, who has frequently referred to herself as a "hot mess," has emerged from the pack as an unlikely lifestyle guru for women who can relate. Peddling wine and scrunchies as a form of self-care, her brands are aspirational yet accessible, suggesting both indulgence and low maintenance. Products include a leopard-print headband called "party animal," a red velvet scrunchie named "long stemmed frozé" and a 2017 cabernet sauvignon with a description that reads, "I'm about to flirt with you." She's attracted fans by doubling down on the fun-loving, wine-guzzling personality they met on television.

    Caitlin Hanley, a self-identified "vino," was first drawn to Bristowe on "The Bachelor" because they share the same first name and native province of Alberta, Canada. Plus, Hanley says, "She's loud, she's brash, and I don't usually see people like that represented in any kind of positive way."

    Hanley, 36, began following Bristowe on Instagram, which led to her to Bristowe's podcast. The podcast led her to a private Facebook group, where more than 26,000 fans of "Off the Vine" have formed a tightknit community. Women in the group frequently solicit relationship and fashion advice, vent about family and work drama, and plan in-person meetups. Hanley credits it for serving as a support network when she was suffering from postpartum depression.

    And then there is the "scrunchie gang," an overlapping subset of fans who snatch up limited-edition lines - or "drops" - of scrunchies every few months. They can sell for upward of $150 each on eBay, according to Hanley, who says she and other friends anxiously gather in group chats to strategize their purchases right before a Dew drop. "It's very intense. We all have anxiety," she says. "Because they're released once and that's it." (She now owns all of them, close to 100.)

    Natalie Howard, 37, says she's "obsessed" with the scrunchies and sees them as affordable collectors' items. "We have three kids, so my hobbies can't get too pricey," she says.

    For Howard, "Off the Vine" offers an intimate glimpse into Bristowe's life. "She's always drinking a glass of wine during the podcast and you can hear her actually pour it and it makes you feel like you're actually there," Howard says. "She's just raw, really, and I think that's intrigued me."

    The path from charismatic reality star to successful entrepreneur has been well charted outside "The Bachelor." The stars of "Keeping Up With the Kardashians" sell an array of goods, including jeans, shapewear, makeup and skin care products. From "The Real Housewives," Bethenny Frankel created Skinnygirl Cocktails, and Lisa Vanderpump launched an eponymous wine label and several restaurants.

    Still, "Bachelor" alumni strike a different chord. Most contestants started out as neither rich nor famous. Plus, fans see them at their most vulnerable as they compete to fall in love, which often leads to rejection.

    "I think they're just more forgiving because they've seen you already break down and make out and share your deepest darkest secrets," says Jillian Harris, who is, like Bristowe, an alumna of both "The Bachelor" and "The Bachelorette." For Harris, 39, creating a lifestyle brand was a chance to reinvent herself. "I was like, 'There's so much more to me that I want you guys to know!' "

    After her turns on those shows ended in 2015, Bristowe "wanted to quit and run away," she recalls in an interview. She'd been the target of intense shaming on social media for openly having sex on "The Bachelorette." She'd also come under fire for leaking the season's winner on Snapchat, which she says was an accident. It wasn't until she started hearing from women who told her she was inspiring that she saw an opportunity to build something bigger. That's when she reached out to Harris, a fellow Canadian.

    "She gave me advice: If you're going to swear, swear. If you're going to clap back, clap back. Just be who you are because that will attract the right audience to you," Bristowe recalls Harris saying. "I wasn't going to have it any other way. I was like, even if I make a complete fool of myself, I'm going to be 100 percent myself and just own it."

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