Slater Museum showcases the art of Ellis Ruley

A cast bronze sculpture of Ellis Walter Ruley by Glenn Palmedo-Smith (1996) and paintings created by Ruley in the background are all part of the exhibition “Brought to Light: Ellis Walter Ruley in Norwich” at the Slater Memorial Museum in Norwich. (Dana Jensen/The Day)

This feels like the Year of Ellis Ruley.




Nonverbal cues speak for themselves

Doctors are pretty good at reading non-verbal cues.

Rick's List — Self-Makeover Edition

"Only one man ever understood me, and he didn't understand me." — Johann Gottlieb Fichte I recently saw an episode of "Queer Eye," an updated version, with a new cast, of the iconic "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy" program that ran...


Upcoming concerts and shows

Busta Rhymes, Fabolous, more — Dec. 14 at Foxwoods' Grand Theater; tickets on sale now; $78-$158

Backstreet Boys, Gavin DeGraw, more — Dec. 14 at Mohegan Sun Arena; tickets on sale now; $50-$75

Train, Goo Goo Dolls — Aug. 11 at Mohegan Sun Arena; tickets on sale at noon today; $39-$59

Aaron Neville — April 13 at Foxwoods' Fox Theater; tickets on sale at 10 a.m. today; $40

"Weird Al" Yankovic — July 19 at Foxwoods' Grand Theater; tickets on sale at 10 a.m. today; $60, $75

KIDZ BOP Live — Feb. 18 at Mohegan Sun Arena; tickets on sale at 10 a.m. today; $49-$69

Iron Maiden — Aug. 3 at Xfinity Theatre, Hartford; tickets on sale at 10 a.m. today; $39.50-$125



Gamer kicked out of house shames dad on social media

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Family draws line at spending holidays with a sex offender

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Diligent college student has less time for old friends

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Daughter is last to learn of new love in dad's life

DEAR ABBY: My father began dating four years after my mother passed away from a terrible bout with cancer. He and I have always been close; in fact, I have always considered him to be one of my best friends. But since he started...

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Your stars Nov. 21

ARIES (March 21-April 19): Hold on to your cash. Put your money, possessions and personal papers in a safe place. Refuse to let...